Comments on: Do men/women want you more when you’re taken?

By: admin

admin — Wed, 21 Dec 2011 17:58:19 +0000

Thank you Rita! I couldn’t have said it better myself.

By: Rita

Rita — Wed, 21 Dec 2011 17:49:43 +0000

There is something so wrong about competing for a man. Maybe I’m old school, but men should always do the pursuing…and if you’re pursuing me while in a relationship then I cannot respect you as a person. If I don’t respect you, I will never be attracted to you.

By: Goddess Intellect

Goddess Intellect — Wed, 07 Oct 2009 15:38:08 +0000

“There is zero tension caused by seeking chemistry or trying to show myself in an attractive light. You could almost say I’m existing as genuine as possible. I can see how that could make me more intriguing to a single woman whether they knew I was married or not.”

I think you hit the nail on the head with this one Allen…a single woman expects the chase and if there is a dude who is not tripping over himself to get at her, a man who can joke, smile w her and remain neutral that could somehow translate into “wow ok he’s real cool…DIFFERENT, smooth, relaxed” when the man is just being himself and then thoughts wander. I think women dont like to admit this but when a man meets 7/10 things on their “ideal man” list they mentally plan imaginary weddings. Some of us take it to the next level…some of us are sensible to know who is off limits.
Enjoyed doing this post w you Claudio!!!!! You know there will be a Pt.2 right???!!! lol

By: admin

admin — Wed, 07 Oct 2009 01:24:34 +0000

Allen -

I agree…I think there is an element of it that depends on how the subject reacts to it.

Does the guy/girl love the attention or does he try to tamper down the mood or shut his/her game down.

If you’re genuine, you should be fine “in most cases.”

By: Allen Walker

Allen Walker — Tue, 06 Oct 2009 21:51:45 +0000

People tend to act different when they’re in a relationship. I know I do. When talking to those from the opposite sex now I could care a lot less if they find me attractive or what they think of me at all. In turn I’m a lot more relaxed and laid back. If it’s a business relationship then I tend to be more focused on the task at hand. There is zero tension caused by seeking chemistry or trying to show myself in an attractive light. You could almost say I’m existing as genuine as possible. I can see how that could make me more intriguing to a single woman whether they knew I was married or not.